Famous Blogger Joro Olumofin Shares 20 Things Guys Shouldn’t Do On A First Date
Famous Nigerian Blogger and relationship expert Joro Olumofin shared 20 things that guys should not do on a first date, to give them a better chance of having a strong friendship and a good reputation for the coming dates.
Read below.
- Men shouldn’t look at their phones more than the Lady while on a date
- Don’t Talk about your Bank account or how much your father has; this puts ladies off (Bragging)
- Smelling Bad ( Mouth or Body Odour is a No. No)
- Don’t ask ” are you a virgin?”
- Don’t ask her how many guys she’s been with ( Body Count)
- If she’s going to pay for the movie or dinner let her know in advance ( no unexpected ATM failures, I forgot my wallet at home)
- When your phone rings on a date and you’re asked where you are? Don’t give a degrading response eg ( I dey with that big ass babe, I dey with tolu big Breasts, I dey with that weekend chops I teh u about”
- Don’t insist on a “come to my house first date” or come to my friends house first date
- Don’t leave your date to talk to another Lady for more that 2 minutes
- Don’t buy her too many gifts she may think ure trying to “buy” her
- If for any reason someone else needs to be in the car, don’t put her in the back seat
- Don’t compare her to your Ex
- Don’t talk about her weight or hair in a negative way eg ( some guys may say : ure about to burst out of that dress, your hair should be due by now ?)
- After the first sex always call as a courtesy (whether the sex was good or bad)
- Table manners ( don’t make sounds with ur mouth while eating, don’t talk while there’s food in your mouth, don’t use fork & knife for icecream)
- Focus your eyes on her eyes not her breast or ass. ( don’t look at any other lady asides her on a date)
- Projecting yourself as someone youre not (Ladies can spot fake confidence, or a fake in general) Don’t borrow ur friends car and say it’s yours, don’t lie your friend’s apartment is yours)
- Don’t be too touchy & feely on a first date
- Don’t be rude or nasty to the waiter or waitress to impress your date
- Don’t ask her for money, Don’t ask for pictures unless she offers