Sex & Life: Do Nice Girls Finish Last?

Apparently, nice girls just don’t get it. That’s why they are single or in a dead-end relationships.

Being called “nice” used to be considered a good thing. But in our eat or be eaten world, nice girls are often put on the back burner in favour of more exciting, mysterious, and even dramatic girls. Most guys are drawn to X-girls who will make their heart race and keep them on their toes, unfortunately “nice” girls don’t exactly do that. They are the type of girls that will travel to go spend a weekend at their own expense, do homely things, all with the thought that she’s investing in the joint future with her guy.

They do not get angry when a guy doesn’t buy them a birthday present, or Vals gift. They are mostly contented just to support their guy until he achieves his aims in life. Nice girls looking for love just aren’t getting it right. They’re not asking for what they want, they don’t have the strength or the balls to get out of bad relationships and will generally accept a man’s bull shit for as long as she can take it without speaking up. As a guy, “while bad girls can be exciting, they’re usually only worth it in the short term”.

If you can find a good girl and turn her into a sexual animal, you may have just found the perfect woman. One truth is that men respond well to naughty girls. Here are some reasons why nice girls come up short in love.

1. They are boring

You always know what to expect with a nice girl. She always does the right thing.

2. They let guys walk over them

Guys have to push girls’ button. They’ll do it on purpose to test her limits. But the nice girl doesn’t have any, as soon as a guy realizes that, he loses all respect for her and its downhill from there.

3. They give guys too many chances

Instead of cutting a betraying guy out of her life, the nice girls will give him another chance. And another; and another. Whether he deserves them or not, she always thinks it’s her duty to let him prove he can change, when it would be better for both of them if she just walked away.

4. They don’t take risks

Not only will the nice girl probably not ask a guy out, she’ll rarely venture far outside of her comfort zone at all. She’ll have a hard time meeting new guys, or intriguing them at all because she rather be nice than interesting.

5. They think being “Nice” is enough

They rely so much on their image, as the nice girl next door that they forget guys like girls with personality.

No guy wants to date someone who is just nice. They want a little edge.

6. They’re afraid to step on toes

She and her friend have their eye on the same guy, but the nice girl will always bow out gracefully rather than fight for what she wants.

In most and almost absurd ways, bad girls get the good guys. Most of their approach and technique is that they know how to find quality men, know how to position them. They know what men actually want and most importantly, they are ‘sexperts’.

Do not get me wrong. Being nice is good, for the records at least, but to enjoy being nice, you need to stand up for what you want. Being nice does not mean you should be gullible to know what is right and absolutely comet.